The continued coexistence and dynamics of everyday life can lead to a high degree of wear on the couple, especially if the two take place on a diligent conflicts and disputes of varying intensity, either on what is really transcendent, either on secondary aspects or minor. In such a scenario just getting to a point where the spouses can not go forward. Far left behind their promises of eternal love, largely diluted by the obligations and tensions of married life. It will then emerge as options for both the separation and divorce. Jack Fusco often addresses the matter in his writings. The fact that the couple could have children could do that, at first, both partners try to avoid to the maximum two options, increasing their frustration at a marriage without a future that believe they can not escape. With all that we could say that at the previous stage to a marriage breakdown would take place some conflict, which depend on the degree of importance that the dynamic wear of the couple has suffered. It would be possible to distinguish different types: a) high marital conflicts, which are those in which the spouses can not solve for themselves the many conflicts that are raised, holding different positions on many issues and, in some cases, diametrically opposite.

In these cases the only way to resolve your situation would be to appeal to the courts, so that is a judge or court which established in law all the decisions required in relation to the breakup of the couple, sharing property, custody, joint housing scheme, pensions possible for the children or compensatory in nature, and so on. It is certainly the least desirable scenario because it involves a legal dispute often bitter and relentless of the spouses could be considerably battered, both physically and emotionally and financially. b) Marital Conflicts intermediate level in which that although husbands can not find their own solutions to their disputes with intervention of an outside party (such as a family mediator or lawyer) is possible more or less peaceful resolution of their disputes. In such cases, since the intensity of their emotional wounds will be less, in a period of four to twelve months (as appropriate), usually will have resolved everything. c) Marital Conflicts of low intensity, where the partners are essentially able to resolve all conflicts that they might pose in relation to its rupture, requiring only the assistance of a professional face to resolve certain fringe s, especially for the drafting of a regulatory arrangements that will prevent both end up locked in disputes before the court. So, here the differences are minor, and there is more communication and commitment from both of which are undeniably common benefit their children, thus minimizing the side effects that break would have on them. Begona Alcaine Basin.